{"id":16091,"date":"2023-01-28T21:22:00","date_gmt":"2023-01-28T21:22:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/?p=8245"},"modified":"2023-02-17T18:03:54","modified_gmt":"2023-02-17T18:03:54","slug":"destination-wedding-guest-etiquette","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/blog\/destination-wedding-tips-and-ideas\/destination-wedding-guest-etiquette\/","title":{"rendered":"Wedding Guest Etiquette: Be the Best Guest in 11 Easy Steps!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Without a doubt, destination weddings are one of the most fun parties you could attend to! You get to visit a beautiful new place, you dress up and wear that killer outfit you&#8217;ve been saving, there&#8217;s free food and booze, you see old friends, make new ones, and best of all, you celebrate love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s all fun and games until you make a faux-pas and it all goes downhill, you feel out of place or get some angry looks from the wedding party. Learn all about wedding guest etiquette with our 11-step guide, and be the best wedding attendee there can be!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Click on any item on the list to jump to that section:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-rank-math-toc-block\"><nav><ul><li class=\"\"><a href=\"#guest-list-rules\">GUEST LIST RULES<\/a><\/li><li class=\"\"><a href=\"#rsvp-asap\">RSVP ASAP<\/a><\/li><li class=\"\"><a href=\"#book-on-time\">BOOK ON TIME<\/a><\/li><li class=\"\"><a href=\"#gift-giving\">GIFT GIVING<\/a><\/li><li class=\"\"><a href=\"#be-on-time\">BE ON TIME<\/a><\/li><li class=\"\"><a href=\"#social-media-manners\">SOCIAL MEDIA MANNERS<\/a><\/li><li class=\"\"><a href=\"#outfit-no-nos\">OUTFIT NO-NOS<\/a><\/li><li class=\"\"><a href=\"#mix-and-mingle\">MIX AND MINGLE<\/a><\/li><li class=\"\"><a href=\"#drink-moderately\">DRINK MODERATELY<\/a><\/li><li class=\"\"><a href=\"#flower-fight\">FLOWER FIGHT<\/a><\/li><li class=\"\"><a href=\"#wedding-souvenirs\">WEDDING SOUVENIRS<\/a><ul><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/Beach-wedding-couples-first-dance-Ana-Acosta-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"just married couple first dance with guests around with sparklers\" class=\"wp-image-14079\" width=\"768\" height=\"512\" srcset=\"https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/Beach-wedding-couples-first-dance-Ana-Acosta-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/Beach-wedding-couples-first-dance-Ana-Acosta-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/Beach-wedding-couples-first-dance-Ana-Acosta-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/Beach-wedding-couples-first-dance-Ana-Acosta-750x500.jpg 750w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/Beach-wedding-couples-first-dance-Ana-Acosta-1140x760.jpg 1140w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/Beach-wedding-couples-first-dance-Ana-Acosta.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Have fun at your next destination wedding in paradise!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"guest-list-rules\">GUEST LIST RULES<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>There is a lot of pressure in creating the invitation list, rest assured couples go a long way to make sure everyone invited will have a great time, feels welcome and everything stays within their budget, too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Usually invites will state if you are to bring a plus one, or if the invitation is only for you. The same happens with kids. If it&#8217;s impossible for you to leave your kids alone at home, inform the couple within a reasonable time you regretfully won&#8217;t be attending.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Stick to their wishes even if you are dying to bring your kids or your two-month date with you. Don&#8217;t take it personally! Some resorts won&#8217;t allow kids or have a very limited amount of rooms available. Bringing an extra person can mess up the entire organization.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/Kids-at-wedding-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"Kids at a beach wedding party holding maracas\" class=\"wp-image-14406\" width=\"768\" height=\"576\" srcset=\"https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/Kids-at-wedding-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/Kids-at-wedding-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/Kids-at-wedding-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/Kids-at-wedding-750x563.jpg 750w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/Kids-at-wedding-1140x855.jpg 1140w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/Kids-at-wedding.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Some weddings may not be able to accommodate kids.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"rsvp-asap\">RSVP ASAP<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>A lot depends on the number of rooms the group will bring to the hotel. From the room rates to some benefits the couple will receive for the party you will get to enjoy. If there is any reason you won&#8217;t be able to attend, be honest and inform the couple right away so they adjust seating charts, party gifts, and other details.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes, wedding venues are assigned according to the size of the group. They may be counting on you to have that amazing ceremony at the rooftop terrace with that striking ocean view! Knowing if you&#8217;ll be able to make it will allow them to change plans in a timely manner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"book-on-time\">BOOK ON TIME<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This is something you don&#8217;t want to leave for the last minute. Room availability may vary from one day to another, if you wait too long, there is a real chance you won&#8217;t secure a room or you have to book a way-to-expensive, ultra-large suite because that is the only room left in the entire resort.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With the pandemic still going on, fewer resorts allow external visitors. Meaning you must stay at the <a href=\"https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/blog\/destination-wedding-packages\/best-resorts-and-wedding-packages-in-mexico\/\">resort the wedding<\/a> will take place, or you won&#8217;t be able to attend the wedding at all! Also, follow the calendar and deadlines you are given. This will take off lots of stress on the wedding couple (and their travel agents too, LOL).<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/Dreams-Aventuras-wedding-couple-Molly-and-Juan-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"Just married couple on their first dance with firewors at the back\" class=\"wp-image-18680\" width=\"768\" height=\"512\" srcset=\"https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/Dreams-Aventuras-wedding-couple-Molly-and-Juan-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/Dreams-Aventuras-wedding-couple-Molly-and-Juan-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/Dreams-Aventuras-wedding-couple-Molly-and-Juan-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/Dreams-Aventuras-wedding-couple-Molly-and-Juan-750x500.jpg 750w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/Dreams-Aventuras-wedding-couple-Molly-and-Juan-1140x760.jpg 1140w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/Dreams-Aventuras-wedding-couple-Molly-and-Juan.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Miss the dates and you could miss the party!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"gift-giving\">GIFT GIVING<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>In our experience, most couples are delighted that you join them on the trip and won&#8217;t really expect a gift. In case you wish to give them something, it will be best to send it to their home address. It&#8217;s likely they will be traveling with lots of baggage and they prefer not to handle wedding gifts during the trip. Can you imagine the hassle of traveling abroad with a stand mixer or a waffle maker?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Also, modern couples have gift registries so gifts are pre-selected. No brainer about choosing the best present, they already did the homework for you!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"be-on-time\">BE ON TIME<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>We get it, a destination wedding is the perfect excuse for a mini-vacation, but remember you are committed to their schedule. If you plan to leave the resort to visit a Mayan village lost in the jungle, swim with the whales, or scuba dive, better do it another day. Anything could happen and delays are a high possibility. Resist the urge!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Same with spa services, makeup appointments, or a resort activity. Even if it&#8217;s at the premises, be mindful of timing. It&#8217;s so easy to lose track of time if you are having fun. The couple planned this day for many months or even years. Enjoy their hospitality and honor their day by being punctual.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shot-glasses-at-destination-wedding-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"love shot glasses at a destination wedding\" class=\"wp-image-2937\" width=\"768\" height=\"576\" srcset=\"https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shot-glasses-at-destination-wedding-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shot-glasses-at-destination-wedding-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shot-glasses-at-destination-wedding-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shot-glasses-at-destination-wedding-750x563.jpg 750w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shot-glasses-at-destination-wedding-1140x855.jpg 1140w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shot-glasses-at-destination-wedding.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Arriving on time will allow you to take your place and your shot!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"social-media-manners\">SOCIAL MEDIA MANNERS<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>You may want to show the world you are tanning at a gorgeous beach, how you look with a charro sombrero, and every moment of your trip, but when it comes to the wedding day, you want to go easy on social media.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Destination wedding photographers can charge a substantial amount to cover the whole event. If needed, they will bring staff for video, photo, drone filming, and everything you can imagine. They are professionals, let them do their thing!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unless instructed otherwise, let the couple be the first to showcase their day! What a bummer to find your soon-to-be spouse in full sparkle on insta before the first look moment or the ceremony. If the couple requests not to post anything before the ceremony or during the key moments of their day, please do so.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"outfit-no-nos\">OUTFIT NO-NOS<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Destination weddings tend to be in tropical weather with lots of humidity, so cotton, linen, ample airy dresses, and light suits are good. For a beach, pastels and neutral colors will always be the safe bet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If it is not the wedding theme, avoid wearing pure white, ivory, and similar, or anything too flashy or polemical. You want to look your best, but it&#8217;s their show and it&#8217;s their time to shine. If this is a multicultural wedding with attendees from different backgrounds, be respectful and courteous.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/indian-women-with-saris-on-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"colorful saris on the beach destination wedding\" class=\"wp-image-2933\" width=\"710\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/indian-women-with-saris-on-the-beach.jpg 905w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/indian-women-with-saris-on-the-beach-300x214.jpg 300w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/indian-women-with-saris-on-the-beach-768x549.jpg 768w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/indian-women-with-saris-on-the-beach-120x86.jpg 120w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/indian-women-with-saris-on-the-beach-350x250.jpg 350w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/indian-women-with-saris-on-the-beach-750x536.jpg 750w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 710px) 100vw, 710px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Weddings are a great opportunity to learn new traditions. Be considerate and humble.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>Pay attention to the environment, the season of the year, and the wedding style. Ask about the time and location events will take place so you know what footwear to bring. No one wants to suffer a stiletto walk on grass or sand!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When in doubt, always reach the couple. And just in case you wouldn&#8217;t know, showing up in bathing suits and flip-flops is absolutely out of the question.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"mix-and-mingle\">MIX AND MINGLE<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Chances are you may not know all the guests. The couple will organize a few activities such as a welcome party, a rehearsal, or a special event for everyone to socialize, get together and kick off the wedding celebrations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is your chance to meet the entire party and catch up with family members and old friends. 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font-size:14px; line-height:17px; margin-bottom:0; margin-top:8px; overflow:hidden; padding:8px 0 7px; text-align:center; text-overflow:ellipsis; white-space:nowrap;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/ByGULTAj0PE\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:normal; line-height:17px; text-decoration:none;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">A post shared by Mexico Destination Weddings (@holawedding)<\/a><\/p><\/div><\/blockquote> <script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/center>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"drink-moderately\">DRINK MODERATELY<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Weddings are usually family-friendly events so you want to have a good time while also maintaining good behavior.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sure, it may be hard to control your drinks in an open bar situation, just follow the golden rule: one glass of water per glass of wine. Make sure you eat well, and stay hydrated and you&#8217;re good to go.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You do want to be fully present and enjoy the entire trip that you paid for. Plus, you don&#8217;t want to apologize the next day for any misconduct!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"flower-fight\">FLOWER FIGHT<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>That flower bouquet may be gorgeous, or you may really REALLY want to tie the knot next year, but that is no reason to go rugby-style and tackle everyone else around you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is a wedding party, not a football field. If it&#8217;s for you, it&#8217;s for you. Let it happen and keep it civil!<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Alexandra-Berger-Wedding-49-bouquett-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"bride tossing the flower bouquet to her bridesmaids\" class=\"wp-image-18918\" width=\"512\" height=\"768\" srcset=\"https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Alexandra-Berger-Wedding-49-bouquett-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Alexandra-Berger-Wedding-49-bouquett-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Alexandra-Berger-Wedding-49-bouquett-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Alexandra-Berger-Wedding-49-bouquett-1024x1536.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Alexandra-Berger-Wedding-49-bouquett-750x1125.jpg 750w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Alexandra-Berger-Wedding-49-bouquett-1140x1710.jpg 1140w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Alexandra-Berger-Wedding-49-bouquett.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 512px) 100vw, 512px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Who&#8217;s gonna be the next one to wed?!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"wedding-souvenirs\">WEDDING SOUVENIRS<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Unless specified, decor, lighting, and ambiance accents are not to be taken home with you. They belong to the hotel or a third-party vendor and will be counted at the end of the event. If something&#8217;s missing, it will be added to the wedding couples&#8217; bill.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you really like it, just snap a pic and then look for it online, or ask the newlyweds. Besides, do you really want to travel home with a big, glass vase or a large no-luggage-fitting candle holder? Take the party favor instead!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Social etiquette was created to keep a respectful, and considerate environment for everyone. Following our destination wedding guest etiquette guide will grant you fun, and many more invites to destination weddings!<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/The-millers-wedding-party-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"Wedding reception on the beach with wedding guests toasting\" class=\"wp-image-15136\" width=\"768\" height=\"576\" srcset=\"https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/The-millers-wedding-party-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/The-millers-wedding-party-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/The-millers-wedding-party-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/The-millers-wedding-party-750x563.jpg 750w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/The-millers-wedding-party-1140x855.jpg 1140w, https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/The-millers-wedding-party.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">You are ready to be the best wedding guest and enjoy the party!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Thinking about getting married and curious about the costs? <em><a href=\"https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/mexico-destination-wedding-cost\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/mexico-destination-wedding-cost\/\">Learn how much a destination wedding costs.<\/a><\/em> Better yet, get to know&nbsp;<em><a href=\"https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/about-us\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">our team<\/a>&nbsp;<\/em>or&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/holaweddings.com\/contact-us\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>get in touch<\/em><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>PS. 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